Originally Posted By: Callasdad


"Where I am and who I'm with is my own business. Most important is Calla and she is with you"

Interesting response.



Pretty typical EVENTUAL response, although they would usually squirm and obfuscate more initially. It's part of the whole "compartmentalization" thing -- she justifies her affair by saying "I am a good mother; this is about ME and only affects ME." My wife suddenly started baking homemade cookies, doing things with the boys she hadn't done in ages, etc. -- swinging wildly from periods of almost total NEGLECT of them (she'd be gone for hours, with them having nothing to eat for lunch in the house), to these periods of what I called "St. ______" (my wife's first name) in my journal.

I trust you ignored the text.

Hope you got a good night's sleep. I feel MUCH better today, altho now I'm having some other wierd symptoms (pain and tenderness and redness in my groin area, and now this morning the same thing suddenly on my ANKLE). I think I'd better go see a doctor, as this seems really strange.

Puppy