Sorry to hijack here, but you are absolutely right. In my case, I'm not responsible for my H's relationship with the kids OR the grandkids that adored him. I've been feeling like I needed to fill both voids in their lives.
IB, you are sounding stronger and more self assured every day. You certainly have more stamina than I do.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
