I've been following your thread, though I've not posted, and I see many similarities in our sitches. My H is still at home, says he loves me, doesn't want D, but I'm not sure that his A is over and he still goes to the gym where the OW is. But, the signs that were there during the A are not there, so I'm trying to believe that it is over. However, I'm having a tough time with trust.
I had read Acorn's words on Sage's thread. Very powerful, but so hard to do. She is right, though and that is what I want to do, but I've started feeling myself pulling away from H. I'd really like some advice from some of you who have been here longer than I and who have offered wise words to others here.
If you have a minute, will you please read my last post on my thread and offer any advice, 2x4 or otherwise? I'd really appreciate. I need help. Here's my thread:
