Well he came and picked up the kids tonight. It was funny I had a little pile from the laundry I did, just a shirt and a couple of pairs of socks...I said, "Here take these, they are yours for your house." He shrugged it off and I said "No really, they're yours, take them..." And he kind of stammered, "Things don't have to be 'yours' and 'mine'" but he took them. I don't separate everything, I mean they wear their shoes back and forth, but if I know he bought it for them I put it back on them the days they go to his house or send it with them...