More details . . . at hand-off tonight, H was wanting to come in and "talk." Prob because I've gone on offensive lately . . .
Made sure phone was dinging a lot (texts) as I opened door . . . looked up from one, said "interesting . . . how was your time at the pool this afternoon?" He said "fine" with no emotion showing . . . but of course he's gotta wonder how I know given that I could be no where near his pool (he was with her, according to intel).
Came in house - I said he wasn't welcome - he was digging for a piece of paper. Wanted me to sign something about when I would bring my dd back from visiting my mom (we are going tomorrow - be gone for a week). Asked him to get out, heard "my house too" response, said, "well, that's not how our sheriff neighbor said he'd see it if I needed to call him . .." H retreated to front porch.
Wanted me to sign - I said no - no good reason - I've been trustworthy so far and not endangering dd. Pass paper to my lawyer, I said. Happy to work out an acceptable custody agreement with help of L. Wasn't sure if refusing to sign was a good idea or not given that I made him sign something earlier - circumstances are different, tho.
Got a lot of "can't we be adults," "why do you need your lawyer," etc. Just didn't respond. Said I had nothing to talk about with him right now. Got the "why are you doing this - OW is just a friend" thing again and I just responded - everyone knows what's going on. So obvious - u r only one who seems to be buying your BS.
Asked him if OW's name was on lease. He said no. I bluffed, "well my L says it is." He just looked at me. Then I said good night, closed the door and went inside.
Wish I had changed the locks . . . guess I will be barricading doors again tonight.
