GIMA - I am discovering the same things. There is something to be said for an LBH who tries to keep their M together as long as we have and the right people recognize the value in that type of commitment we had to our families.
I am now realizing what I have lived without for a few years now (someone who appreciates me) and it feels great to meet new people.
Who knows, I may thank OM some day! I hope things continue to go well for you.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline