That's crazy about how you met. It sounds similar to H's my story! We met thru band too. I played the clarinet and H placed the trumpet. The only difference is that H was ahead of me in school by 2 years.
It's so hard to take in what our H's have become. I liked to believe that they did have the best at heart when they married us, but obviously theu just couldn't follow thru. I remember me and H having similar talks about other couples getting divorced and how we would never do that, especially with kids, blah blah blah. Yep, same story, same outcome.
I agreee with CTH - it really is a complete lack of maturity thing. It's unfortunately that it's most likely going to be too late before they ever figure it out. =/ Unfortunately too, we can't save them, so we just have to continue living our lives and try to make the most of the life we've been given - even as unfair as it is.
I hope you are having a better day!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
