I am starting a new post to move from my Newbie thread found at:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...413#Post1858413

For those of you who have followed my sitch, it has been a long battle the past 2 years when my life and marriage fell apart, only to find that we were the victim of H's depression and ADD gone terribly wrong (read page 1 from original post above for summary). We are still separate and unfortunately far from reconciliation, but H has come a long way and has actually sought helped for these issues (most recently getting a tonsilectomy to cure his ADD), so now we're in the waiting game to see if it is enough to "cure" H and let him be able to see the beauty of life and his family again. Unfortunatley, the newest setback was a discovery of an OW3 last week, which with who H had an inappropriate R with by texting and calling with her at all hours day and night. That destroyed me when I thought we were making so much progress, but I have found my strength again and am back here to fight...


Me 27; H 28; S 2
Togeth 9; M 4
Sep 11/14/08
EA OW1 Sep 08
EA OW2 Mar 09
EA OW3 Jun 10

First: http://tinyurl.com/2fd6ou8
Current: http://tinyurl.com/2etp7c9