Your woman wants you to provide for her, be her partner and protect the family from threats. Women need the security. A OM, her poor behavior,injury/illness, financial strain and kids acting up are threats to the family. She wants the leader of the home to protect the house. Yet at the same time she doesn't want to be bored. No emotional, physical, emotional or spiritual stimulation causes boredom. That's why your women getting angry at you is no big deal it's not boring to her. She want's you to stand up to her. That's exciting to a chick. It's drama to a guy but to her it's attractive. You are a leader, you are strong enougth to weather her emotional outbursts, you love her enough to not let her be the leader of the family(a job she doesn't want) and you don't let her emotions control your day.
Lead the family and be her man. Then all your dreams come true.
Thanks for the specifics Coach. I am trying to stand up now and I will. No more of this BS. It is crunch time and she will have to deal with her mess. I'm done letting her walk all over me. I am not afraid of losing her anymore. I thought I was being nice, doing what she wanted, letting her lead, but you are right, that is not what she wants. Hopefully it is not too late.......
