Thick as pea soup. My gosh, I'm so glad that you see it for what it is. You have a right to confide in people responsibly about this huge life transition. In fact, it's helpful to have people who your children know to be aware of this fact so that they can be part of supporting your family in moving forward. I know that many people have supported me and my children from the sidelines because of their awareness of our circumstances (not that hiding it was an option obviously). I'm sorry that you've been through this with little IRL support...that must have been so hard.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.