I've re-read her text a few times and it's beginning to appear that she may have misunderstood. Or deflecting.
If I read it right, she may believe I'm referring to the divorce; NOT the affair.
Wouldn't THAT be funny? To come back here thinking it's a divorce thing (too bad it ruins the Interruptus) but headfirst into an Exposed Affair everywhere she turns.
Possibly. I re-read it too, and it's possible.
Maybe send her another one that says "I know where you are, and who you're with. I hope it's worth it."