Opt, Coolhandluck has great insight here! Good one CHL! You need to look at where you were and where you are at now. I just know that you are assuming and need to let it be. Your H has to work through this and it don't necessarily mean the worse! I know I've come a long way, and it's not easy! We all have a long way to go. And like CHL I agree with the song, I'll take the road less traveled! And why don't you apply the "act as if" method. Act as if your H loves you and is slowly working at saving your M! It's working for me! Don't ASume and believe the worse, you've on;y hurting yourself! So pull up your pants and work on saving you're M. Even if your H was talking to OW, it doesn't mean he wants her, it could be he is telling her to bug off! And doesn't want you to hear about it. Give him a break and give yourself one. This might be all in your head! Put on a smile and DR your butt off!
