I've been busy all day and just catching up. What a day, CD! You have tons of support, which is awesome! I know this is difficult. It may even be more difficult when all the drama is over and realization sets in a little more. BUT...you are doing awesome!
It's her icy, business "contempt". Pure arrogance believing she gets half of the assets in the house.
I think when I get a REAL Sep Agreement drawn up, in addition to the loks she gets fromthe exposure and HID reaction when his parents know, the tune could change REALLY fast.