Hi Opt....I know the tired feeling...we are tired...so many reasons....and the holiday stress...or not feeling well..all those things can stir so much up.
I do know the ASSuming thing can only cause you more grief..I did that a year ago and nearly drove myself bonkers...
Keep working on you..foccus on you when these feelings of doubt come over you..you can't change him..only the way you react can change..it is so hard..I know.
