OK. I'm gonna quickly read 'em and type 'em.

I REALLY don't want them to get under my skin so I'll need some diffusion pretty quickly

"I am more than welcome in our house. Calla has nothing to do with our divorce. She gets everything she needs and deserves from me. I will be home on Sunday and you are more than welcome to talk to me then"

That's it. just one.
Hmm.