Hello TimeHeals. I don't have any advice for you and I'm in no position to give advice.

However, maybe I'm being optimistic, but at least she has second thoughts! Maybe, keep doing whatever you are doing to get these "thoughts" Idk. (sell me some magic too plz :D) But man I'm going to include you in my prayer and if you don't want a prayer, then I'll just think hope for you.