When you discover what is inside you Taylor you will no longer feel like...
...Like the 30 pages up there ^^^^^^
Full of pain, hurt and self doubt.
There is a difference between moving on and moving forward.
We are about foward here.
Everyone that has posted to you is telling you the same thing in a different way.
Which way can I say it so that you will hear it?
Tell me how I can convince you.
If you have read my thread all 45 pages, then you would know I started where you are.
So did everyone here.
And you would know why standing for my marriage has made all the difference in my life.
And
I am going to tell you a secret...
You want to know why you would want to stand.
You're not going to believe this.
Because there will come a day when you actually know that by not doing it, standing, by walking away you add to the pain that your husband is going through. You confirm all his doubts about himself and your marriage by leaving. You confirm your own doubts about yourself.
Can you imagine that all your pain can be transformed into compassion and courage and love?
Can you believe that?
Is that something you want? Is that a journey worth taking?
You know what? I would rather be watching Dancing with the Stars right now.
BUT
I'm not.
I am typing to you.
Why do think that is?
Can you tell me the reasoning behind why I am here typing to you instead of watching DWTS? (ok I'm kidding about DWTS)
Why am I here do ya think?
Why is everyone who has taken time to post to you doing it?
If you really know the answer to that question then you are ready to take the first step.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
