Well her mom says she just wants us both to be happy, no matter how we end up.

So I AM going it alone. Any further suggestions?

Do I still play hardball here?

Or am I dead in the water with her family and friends giving her support?

I keep hearing that NO ONE can make a WAS change their mind. THEY have to do it themselves.

So if i get some respect, and keep working hard, she should still see everything that is going on.

THEN maybe her parents will wise up and apply the pressure when she isn't so far gone.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed