Her mother's a mess... what a hypocrite.. she's done as much harm as she's done good here...

Typical... You warn them NOT to be a friend and empathise and she goes right on ahead and does it...

I had to deal with this too... A friend of my wife's and I (her university roomate)... we used to visit her place up north of ours and stay for a week as a vacation... went swimming, hiking etc...

When my wife was cheating she went up there for a week... I THOUGHT THAT would be safe and her friend would keep an eye on her.. I find out later that she took OM up there and her friend kept her mouth shut and actually HOUSED them for the whole week... and I used to go UP there WITH my wife... Complete betrayal...

I am thinking of going up again sometime this summer with my wife and telling her I know all about it... I want to watch her squirm...