Are you being funny Grit? No, this isn't how he has acted for 20 years. He was the most wonderful man on the planet. Just like I've read in so many other threads, people envied our relationship because we got along so well. He was the most considerate, happy, funny, intelligent, wonderful wonderful wonderful person I've ever met. The best person I knew..and I told him that alot. It wasn't until we moved here and he took this job that he changed. And like everyone else here who is just reeling from the situation..he changed 100% to be exactly the opposite of what he used to be.
So, what I meant was that sick or not..he still knows the difference between right and wrong, that lying and cheating is wrong, why it's horrible to treat people like crap..I mean damn..we used to talk about it all the time. he couldn't stand to see someone treat another human being disrespectfully..but yet he is doing it to me. He knows, and doesn't care. Why would I want to be with someone like that? And once again, I'm not asking for you to tell me to stay..I just want to know the resoning behind staying vs leaving if we don't know that they will ever treat us with respect, if they will ever love us again, etc. What are your thoughts on that?
