Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

Wow puppy that seems GOD AWFUL. Just horrible.

I am praying for a miracle too. I said that to her Mom. And then I find out her mom tells MY WIFE I said that, and then my wife said in another message "WTF? He's soooo clueless!".

That is what set me off today. Having trust violated like that, and being made fun of.

But after continuing that home improvement project, I feel much better. I am keeping my promises, and I can build on that.

I am DEFINITELY not going to be in the house Friday.

I may be at a neighbors who knows the situation; where I can still log onto my home wireless and watch what she does.

But I will definitely not be around to have that ultimatum thrown at me. She actually said that in a message "I gave him an ultimatum..."

Blank that. She hires a realtor and wants to buy a condo with her half the equity in our house? No Sir. Homey isn't going to allow that. She is going to have to get an apartment until the D is final, and her parents will eventually get tired of giving her money.

THEN, when she needs money for a down payment and closing costs, she ain't gonna have nowhere else to get it. That well will have been dry and sucked up by her apartment.

I am ready to play hardball. Thing is, after she moves out the finances will totally kill me. I will only be able to keep the house until the D is final, and if it doesn't sell quickly, I will be forced to by the court.

This is a Hella big time stakes poker game here. And I am about to raise, go all in, and then call.

Allen, I am taking your advice here. I want some RESPECT. But that respect might cost me a hell of alot.

I am REALLY hoping the fog of the affair will have started to lift. Her seeing that text from him, realizing she got played when she was really hung up on him, and having to get an apartment just might do it. I HOPE AND PRAY.