Been a while since I've posted and here's my update...
(Very)STBX and I have been going through the collaborative divorce process and will soon be signing our divorce agreement by early August. It's been extremely hard going through this process as STBX has been so controlling and we hadn't spoken in 6 months. I started off nervous and afraid of him, but with each meeting I got stronger and started seeing what I was really "losing". Yes June, he is a lead weight and I will be happy to be free of this soul-sick, controlling person. I no longer wonder maybe or what if.
I am much stronger now. I am not only surviving, I am thriving. I am healing. I am growing. I am moving on to a new and better life.
I am so grateful for all the support I received here from others and for the experiences others have shared as well. I learned so much and I wish you all the very best. Thank you.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10