Just peeking in. I have nothing to post, really. Kids and I are enjoying our summer, although it is going way too fast. That summer class stole the first three weeks away...
My sister is still processing the fallout from her ex cheating. It was phone sex with former high school girlfriend, but to her that is cheating and I can understand that. She is literally OCD so she has all ducks in a row already. Attorney appointment made. Separate bank account opened. Both within 36 hours of catching him.
She also spoke with him on the phone already. Had a list of 40 questions for him. Found out he first 'found' this woman on facebook (wow, the website that launched 1,000 affairs!) in May. They have spoken a dozen times, had phone sex five or six times.
She is doing well considering she hasn't found the DB site. She bluffed him and told him she had downloaded all their cell phone records even though she hadn't. Told him if what he said didn't match up he was done. So he confessed a lot of things. As for the 40 questions, she told him he had to answer them all and "I don't know" didn't qualify as an answer. Then she said she would not respond immediately to his questions, would administer them like a lie detector would, but would take some time to consider them before making any decisions...
Anyway she wants to stay married but has fears about transparency. I told her to come to DB and get on infidelity and look up Puppy/transparency for ideas. Mentioned the internet filters for porn sites, etc. She already made him 3-way call his sister and confess all that he has done, back to the times he threatened to physically abuse her three years ago, up through the current cheating. She just wanted to make sure his family knew the truth and didn't get his filtered-down version.
Anyway there is not much going on in my world. Got my car, took the kids swimming and to the movies yesterday. Today we hung out indoors, played with Play-Do, watched cartoons, etc.
Dan just left with the kids and I really wish I had a guy to hang out with. However I don't want to be in a serious relationship, and I don't want a "friends with benefits" thing that is all about sex and not much else.
I just want to be able to joke, flirt, have some human touch (a leg to rest my arm on or a chest to lean my back on when watching a movie, that kind of thing) and even a little kissing. Nothing major. Just that fun little interaction. I can go on girls' nights but it isn't the same...
I may go get another massage. Not to sound creepy, it isn't "that" kind of massage! Just some sort of comforting touch.
Then she said she would not respond immediately to his questions, would administer them like a lie detector would, but would take some time to consider them before making any decisions...
Just some sort of comforting touch.
