Maybe I need to clarify what I mean by “As if”… Ok my natural instinct would be to “Jump her bones”...if ya know what I mean. So my just letting her get used to being back …and acting "as IF" well it’s kind of likes a stray cat… The cat shows up and does not trust you. If you were to try to pick it up it would run away… So ya need to assimilate the cat to your presents… You put out some water and food and walk away… The cat eats and drinks but keeps an eye out for you… Then after a little while when you put the food and water out you stand there... the cat will eat and drink but still keep looking at you to see what you are going to do... later when the cat is comfortable that you are not going to hurt it. It lets you pet it but still will not let you pick it up the after it is comfortable with your petting…..It lets you pick it up… THEN you can’t get rid of the cat if you tried…..
Well I put out the food, I have now began to stand there……I am getting ready to “pet” W
Things take time….. We have NOT slept together for almost 3 years…. Some marriages have not even lasted that long
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
