I understand. Just takes me back to my days coaching church softball. People complained that the only reason some guys were at church was softball. My response was "Don't complain about why they are here, use the fact that they are to minister to them."

You are right though. I did get brought back to reality when I turned the radio on and it was at a station that was clearly picked by him and not her. Made me want to rip it out of the dash.

Such is life. I appreciate your candor. The road is long enough without creating peaks and valleys where they don't have to be.


M - 43
WAXW - 42
Married - 24 years
Together - 25 years
S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09
S - 22
Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night
D-day - 9/17/10