Off topic Pup.. two questions :

1. Does your wife log on here and read any of your posts?
2. Is she comfortable with you being on here and offering advice etc?

The thing is, I can see a lot of WS in the reconcilliation phase NOT wanting their spouse (mine included) visiting here raging away about an affair that she had ended... It suggests that there was no forgiveness...

I know, I am not agreeing with the position, I am just wondering how your wife feels about the db forum and your extended discussions here about her affair...?