Try not to read too much into this. She could just be trying to assuage her guilt, by going to church. Or leaving it there for you to find it, so you'll get off her case. There are even multiple stories in this very forum (and thousands, elsewhere) where the wayward spouse SWEARS THAT GOD LED THEM TO THEIR OM/OW!!
Slow and easy, L4S. This journey is difficult enough, without too much "mind reading" -- big DB no-no.
NOT trying to rain on your parade; just don't want to see you set yourself up for a fall.
