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1 hr by air. 7 by car (in the mountains.)

She said she was going to meet up with her mom who is visting out there, too, and her aunt and cousin who live there. All very legit.

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So her mom and relatives ARE planning on meeting with her; she's just got OM in tow (and, apparently, in her ROOM) as well?

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She intends to meet up with mom and aunt at some point. I overheard the conversation. It was also when she explained to her aunt that she wouldn't need to stay with them as "a freind has a condo there"

My guess? She'll vist both at the same time; probably borrow his truck to run down the road for a few hours.

Doubt she would have the cajones to introduce him to mom and aunt without even a Sep Agreement in place.

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A freind suggested call the aunt and expose. If she doubts it and/or quickly allies with me, have her pop down the road and knock on their door. HA!!

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Then I would say it's GAME ON.

Time to send the text. No sense letting them get a headstart on their sex games, uninterrupted.

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Originally Posted By: Callasdad
A freind suggested call the aunt and expose. If she doubts it and/or quickly allies with me, have her pop down the road and knock on their door. HA!!


Not a bad idea. I'd position it with the aunt, tho, that "Look, if you don't believe me ...." -- like you're reluctant to even get her involved.

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Agreed.

Like this-
'I hope what you're doing is worth it. Calla and I deserve better than this. We'll have some details to discuss when you get back'

ANy little truth darts or shots about the resort of choice?

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Or better-

'I hope what you're doing is worth it. Calla and I deserve better than this. You are not welcome in the house. We'll discuss some details by email only when you return"

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Could also add "I'll deliver the balance of your personal effects to Amandas"

Pick any of the above or a combinationof your choice, sir.

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YOU'RE THINKING TOO MUCH. Time's a-wasting.

Send the first one or the second one, but SEND IT.

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