Her remark in a public place was inappropriate but I'm not angry with her. She only had what he told her to go on. He was obviously encouraging this type of talk and that shows me he is still out looking.

Donna, I'm not his WIFE. I'm not his wife. I'm not his anything. He's found a safe place and knows that I'm not going to kick him to the curb so he's playing house with me until he finds something better. I'm convinced of it. I truly believe at this point that he is not capable of having a R with anyone. He's beyond broken and I'm terribly sorry for him. He'll be miserable for the rest of his life going on like this.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!