Oh hang on I found both of those last 2 statements in Penny's Overcoming Infidelity. To the letter. So the addicted person really says that stuff and later realizes it is wrong? I know I ask people here to speculate a lot, it just all seems like if someone says that crap now he'll never NOT say it.
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