AMEN! In fact, my early posts as a WAW had some clear issues over the fact OM "appeared" to be very capable of giving me the financial security that my H wasn't. I'm not saying that the money was the key.....but the fact my H wasn't getting up hitting the time card and putting in a day's work, and the fact I was afraid of losing our home and everything else....that was getting to me big time. It was the lack of security I felt with him not putting forth the "efforts" to insure me that I would be protected and have a place to live.
Thank you, Coach, for speaking up about the boredom issue. I also posted of how I had been bored to death for so many years. I was blasted by some LBS's. I might have been the WAW, but I was speaking the truth and I won't back away from it. Boredom is a very dangerous thing for some women.
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Lead the family and be her man. Then all your dreams come true.
Be her man.....yes, that sounds good. Don't act like a boring, passive, husband. That doesn't sound very sexy, does it?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
