Thx Robx... I am a real man.. NO is the only answer. As you indicated on other posts, I can be just as if not more attractive when I say no instead of a yes man.. " nice guy" I dont want to be mean and I dont have it in me to be mean. Its a really tough road that I have been on and there is light at the end of the tunnel.
I have some really good friends that have been very supportive and the comments I read on this forum from Gucci, Sandi, Puppy etc have been very helpful.
We do have a schedule arranged. 50-50 split. Starting Aug 1.. 1 week at a time. w moves out July 30th I told her she needs to take them 1st week. I planned a golf trip for 4 days on the week that I dont have the kids in late Aug.. I havent told the kids or her any of my plans but when that golf trip comes I am outta here!!!... She will be in suspence for sure. Funny thing is one of my good buddies tells me he wants to live vicariously through me now... he to is having some issues...
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)