The result of all this is that I think we will never be friends, and I think it may be even wise to never see each other ever again. They are the consequences I see today, can't you see that?'. And he said, "I am prepared to accept those consequences".
No, he's not. He's playing defense to your offense.
Great point, Seeing Red! I think that's totally possible, P.
Your counselor is awesome and has helped me now, as well!
Originally Posted By: Piano
I find it really hard to separate the WH script from the Truth.
ME TOO. It's very hard for me not to take what my WH says for face-value. And maybe I should; I really don't know.
I hope that if you guys go for pizza, that it works well. In fact, if you do go out, I'd say he doesn't mean that he is prepared to never see you again. "is prepared", ha! The more I hear it, the more it sounds ridiculous. You either do or you don't. So he either wants to see you again or he doesn't. That language shows that he wants you to decide. Very cowardly and very indecisive, just like my WH.
Good luck!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
