WAW EA told her to leave

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So the big event of this week was a text message she sent me yesterday morning - we have been talking and getting along very well - almost like pre-bomb or even better. The message she sent is " Do you want to find us a couples counselor, cause this is getting too stressful, could be why my stomach is such a mess". I replied with a " Yes, I'd love to" and that's where it has been left.

So I don't know if this is part of the heavy lifting that Greek implied that needs to be started on her part or if it is a way for her to get me into a deeper R discussion that would reinforce her wishes to leave - sort of a way to get me to "See the Light" that she simply wants out and a counselor may be the one to help her get me to acknowledge that as fact and move on?

I think, taken within the context of all that has been of late, yes - this could be her doing some heavy lifting. No one knows but her. You go for your reasons. When you get there, if she's set you up, don't go back.

I imagine her stomach is a mess at this time. It's stressful. When I read LBS on here, I get the feeling they think that it's all fun and games walking away and walking back. Nothing could be further from the truth. I stressed, worried, second guessed, was mad at myself, disappointed a lot of the time, confused.... everybody's looking for answers.

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