Nothing fits

[mishka422]

I'm definitely working on me. I had IC yesterday (thank goodness!) and the entire conversation shifted from what she had been planning for us to discuss with this latest bombshell.

Why would I want to be with someone who lies at every turn about every little thing? I'm serious when I say this. It has become nearly every word out of his mouth, not just about us or things relating to us. He has a serious sickness and unless he is allowed to fall completely on his face all on his own he won't seek help for it.

Yes, I love him, flaws and all but loving him and being able to live with his constant lies and manipulations is where I'm stuck. If I kick him out then I'm the 'bad guy' and I don't want Marc to think that I'm being cruel to his dad. Then again, if I allow him to stay with no conditions attached then what example is that setting? Marc has no idea that his dad has a problem and it's not my responsibility to inform him. When he gets hurt by it directly I'll have to pick up the pieces but until then, his dad is his hero.

In regards to the whole FB thing, I had a message from the woman that made the comment. It said, and I quote, "Gabe and I where friends but thank you we are not any more. You can have have him. he is a liar and a creep. I hope your son does not take after him."

Sooo.....I don't know what he was saying to her but I can guess. Not a pretty picture is it?