Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

This is just a horrible, horrible day. This is by far the darkest I have faced.

I WANT to keep fighting. I just need to work through this. I am willing to fight for my marriage by doing what is right.

It is just now that the affair is exposed and done with, it is really hard to see a path toward healing us together when she is just gone beyond belief.

I understand I can't pursue and all. I get all that.

YES I know I need to save me FIRST. But my ultimate goal is to save me, and in the process let her see that it can be worked through, and she will come around.

Has anyone here faced this dark a situation and actually saved their marriage?

Puppy I know you said you were done with me, but I could use your advice. You have been nothing but great to me, even when my emotions get the best of me.

See, I used to bottle my emotions up ALL the time. Part of my DB work is to let me feel them. And I really don't know how quite yet. I apologize if I am too much sometimes.