now EVERYONE in her life will be telling her to stick with the divorce
You do not know this. More defeatist precognition on your part.
Stop being so negative. How do you know, that your wife won't leave and 3 months later, you won't meet a nympho-maniac, cheerleader, aerobics instructor who loves beer, fishing and the three stooges?
Things are gonna get better one way or the other. I promise.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted