I think exposure backfired?

[AntoniaB]

Alright well I successfully got through not contacting him while he went on his flights and now he's halfway across the US and I didn't check to see if he got there ok or anything, so yeah me.

However I do have one update--I don't remember if I talked about this before, but I had heard that he had contacted one of my male friends (the huband of one of my closest girlfriends) about a week ago via email. That person shared the email with his wife, who told me all about it in detail. Get this: he invited THAT guy to come over to swim in the pool (remember he had asked me to do this before and I said no) and have a few beers so they "could commiserate about the more difficult aspects of their wives' personalities." Can you believe that? Ok so he leaves me, has an affair, and pushes for a divorce, and yet he wants to hook up with my girlfriend's husband to talk about how she and I are "difficult"? And he's still saying "wife"? I can't understand this at all. He also said in the email that he was grateful they were helping me out because I obviously "really needed a lot of support" but that he was "just fine and didn't need any support", and that contrary to my saying he "needed help" (like professional counseling) that he was feeling "really good about his decisions" and just hopeful that I could "come to accept the reality of what was going on." He ended the email by saying that he would like it if this man were to overhear me and his wife talking about the situation if this man would "stay out of the conversation" and that he "really enjoyed having met him before and thought they had a lot in common."

???? Any guesses on what the heck any of this means or is motivated by? What he was trying to DO by sending this email to someone he barely knew, my close gf's husband? God it is so condescending I could vomit.