Originally Posted By: lala
he just said that they were good friends.


Lala there are friends and then there are freinds of the M.

It disturbs me that he describes them as good friends.

IMO any "good" friends should also know the spouse.

IF

Each is committed to the M.

He only told you they are good friends after you confronted him.

And to explain why he knows detail about someone that he works with that workers normally don't share.

Hi my name is Truegritter and I work in accounting. Oh BTW my family life is really f@cked up. Want to get a beer after work?


KWIM?

I am not trying to get you all riled up here Lala

But

Also don't close your eyes to what's happening.

Your M is going no where until he commits to it.

Do you want to live in an open M?

If he has already admitted to an EA then

He should respect that you would be a little concerned by this.

Like Jack says, trust but verify.

If he doesn't then, well you just got a good bit of information.

Your going to be chasing your tail until this is addressed IMO

If its MLC then there is a different approach recommended here than just a WAS.

Do you know this woman?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am