financial statements for s agreement drafted by MY l shows that i may end up paying HIM. h's father has had access to h's investment account during the course of our m and h's father made some bad investments. creating big losses for h. this showed in his statements and resulted in a lower net worth for him. so despite making 1/4 of what h makes, i end up having to pay him an equalization amount.
also, if i want to keep my rings, jewellery, and handbag (that were gifts PRE-marriage), that equalization payment jumps to 10x what i'd have to pay him now.
while he's jetsetting with his parents on lavish vacations, i'm supporting myself, no vacations, not asking for spousal support, and he walked away with the lion share of the household goods.
i have to fight for my jewellery and to keep my jewellery, i must pay for it?! and i am responsible for the debt that HIS father created?!
this is the payback i get for doing the right thing during our m.
