Sorry I was actually being facetious.

I got it Puppy.

I will do the BBQ, and ask if she would like to invite a friend over. Keep it small and easy.

Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10