BTW, I have not heard about you going out with your friends, lifting some weights, riding your mountain bike, starting a drunken fight at a ball game...what have you done for yourself lately?
One of my first steps to getting back some hand was when I went out all day with friends. I was totally busy and actually forgot my situation at home. I realized, I went all day without her, without seeing her or thinking about her. It was the best day I had in more than a year. I actually didn't even want to go home.