From "totally blowing it off" to "big surprise party for her and all of her friends"??
That's a mighty big leap.
Go big..take the chance. It will only be 3-4 couples and probably their kids. ...maybe take the surprise factor out of it?
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10