How To Tell The Kids

[Coach]

What is it with these women? I care about you as a person. You are a good person. We always have fun together when we go out. I could be friends with you forever. I love sitting around and talking with you, but I HAVE to divorce you.

Communicating, dialouging and supporting each other is great. But your wife views you as a friend.

Thought I would come home and talk to W about what is a fair split of the bills. She didn't want any of it, wouldn't agree and said, can't I just pay a bill when I have money?

Answer - NO, here is how we are going to handle it. I have spoke with my L and this is the plan ____________________.

So it starts like this. I get home and she is cleaning up from having dinner with the kids. I am home by 6pm, but she never waits. They are generally done with dinner by the time I get home. Not always, but probably most of the time.

disrepectful, be the leader of your family. your kids are watching how she treats you.

So, I eat a piece of leftover frozen pizza and a hot dog. I never complain about it, I just find myself soomething to eat and get on with the night.

the leader of the pack gets to eat crumbs. It's not complaining to asked to be treated better. Who's buying the groceries?


Does this project confidence, power/strength, fun to be around, attractive and supportive of her? You let her walk over you then you ask how she wants to do things.