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BTW, I have not heard about you going out with your friends, lifting some weights, riding your mountain bike, starting a drunken fight at a ball game...what have you done for yourself lately?



Actually I do. I go to the gym 5-6 times a week - always have. I have started going to church and praying. I have started a ton of home improvement, and go to bookstores to read, joined meetup.com, do lots of things.

It is just after getting that intel this morning I completely fell apart. Now when this happens, I DO NOTHING. I don't call anyone, I don't make decisions ect. I don't backslide from my changes. I just let the pain out. I have to or it will destroy me.

I just remembered how Puppy's in-laws told him that she was DONE, DONE, DONE. That is EXACTLY where I am right now.

I blew the affair out of the water. Now I am at a place that exposure cost me the backing with her parents, and she is moving out.

Puppy, I am still interested in what you did AFTER you struck hard and fast at the affair.

I guess this is where the TRUE DB begins?


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed