How about her birthday, The past few times I did blow them off.(Yeah I know...nice job) It is about a month away. Her friends already took my idea. I knew she wanted to go tubing in a river(yes we do have a clean river here), but they already had it planned. She did ask that I come along. All she ask that I brought beer. As long as we have been together I never knew she drank beer.(mental note added)

Anyhoos....

My next thing I thought of, which is another 180 with me, to have a surprise party. Gather her friends up to our place for a BBQ. One, I am being socialable and two I though about W to the point where her friends are involved.I thought about getting one of those water slides for the kids the families would bring.

Too much?


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10