You all still think I am chasing her, huh? I guess I am blind to what I am still doing that is considered chasing. I'll ponder that for a while. I thought I was doing pretty well detaching, but I guess not.
R2C,
I know I have been missing my balls since she blew-up in January, but I thought I have been getting them back and standing up to her. I don't feel like I am afraid of her leaving anymore, even though I don't want her to leave.
I don't really know the 5 answers, but my wife said when we met she wanted someone who liked her and was fun to be with. She also said she wanted security and stability, which I have provided. Even the MC told her, "Well, you got what you wanted, didn't you?"
I guess I should google this stuff and read some more articles about male/female attraction. I am not well versed in this area. I did read a lot of relationship articles at first, but I have read so much that it is all a blur now.
I guess my 5 answers, without looking would be:
1) Confidence (I've never been very confident) 2) Strength/Power (not physical) 3) Fun 4) Physical Attractiveness 5) Supportive, makes her feel good
I tried to google your question and did not find any quick answers.
