No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

Thanks sandi.

I don't think she considers me as a "back up".

There are times that she considers us family so we do these things together. Personally I don't think there is anyone else. As far as I know she hasn't gone out with anyone since we've separated. She really believes that she wasn't meant to marry me and so just left.

I don't think I've ever met anyone so indifferent before in my life. I mean she's so matter of fact with no emotion in front of me. She doesn't get mad or anything, but there's always a level of anger or uncomfortableness under her surface.

Therapy would do her a world of good. But as long as she has enabling relatives she has no reason to leave her turtle shell.