What makes her feel loved? The Five Love Languages (5LLs). Most people love others the way they want to be loved. Think back to when you were dating, what did you two do?
What are you two doing to address the issues that got you here? Don't defend yourself, just listen to her.
A regular date night is great, something to look forward to. Once a quarter get away for at least a weekend - no kids.
No expectations. Give freely and without conditions. Your coupon has conditions.
When you talk really listen. Eye contact. Share your day, let her in all of your life. Be interesting.
Be busy - keep your hobbies, friends and interests.
Be aware of what works (warmth/affection) and what doesn't (shields up).
Be ready for setbacks and for her to test you.
What are both of your triggers? How you going to handle them going forward?
DB 201 is much harder. Stay grateful for your progress. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
