Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Yeah, I could barely sleep last night after that but I resisted being 'available' to her. I typed up the response last night and sent it this morning: "I won't, I don't think DD needs to know. I'm so sorry for all that happened, that's horrible"

She took the time to explain (I'm sure she wanted to tell it to someone who was the resuer in the past so kinda self-serving) so I could at least sympathize?

She didn't respond nor did I really expect one.

As for D there are two things going on:

1. Opposing counsel said they'll take us to court on the school matter. So my attorney's preparing a response to that.

2. I'm asked to submit all the financial docs from 2007+ which took me a long time to gather- I have lots of accounts from transferring money and securities from one to the other over time. However, several accounts don't allow access to beyond 24 months or even 12 months in some cases. So the paralegal's pushing me to contact these banks and ask for those docs. I'm like no...this is all I have access to period. I don't have a problem giving STBXW access to these accounts if there's a question. If they want something older that I don't have access to then they can get it themselves or show cause for them. I don't know...so that's a monkey on my back these days and we're running out of time. Then we have to set a mandatory pre-trial conference and then get a court date for trial.

I hate the legal BS...